Real Love is Self Love – Discovering New Beliefs about Unconditional Love

It is the truth of all truth, what you radiate (the Law of Radiation and the Law of Attraction working together) will be drawn back to you according to your thoughts and beliefs.  If you believe love is just and kind and empowering, then you will attract relationships that are just, kind, and empowering.  If you believe that love is pain, suffering, doom, and gloom, then you will attract pain, suffering doom, and gloom in your relationships.  If you believe love is one big chance and you are lucky if you can get someone to stick around and put up with you, then you will attract someone who will put up with you but never show you the beauty and magic of real love. 

Take a moment to heal yourself and tap into who you really are and you will find just how deserving you are of real love.  Once you are emitting love for your true and authentic self this release and emission of love will radiate from your soul and attract others in your life who will love you with the same intensity and authenticity. 

We must reiterate that real love is unconditional love and we must have unconditional love for ourselves before we can have it for anyone else or before anyone else can have it for us.  It is a quest to discover new beliefs about unconditional love and it begins with the following affirmations:

§           “I am love and I emit unconditional love to others; therefore I attract unconditional love in my life.

§           “I am beautiful and I am created perfect and magnificent.  I love who I am.

§           “Love is eternal, just, good, and love heals.  I love myself just as I am and this love is eternal.”

These three affirmations will declare, proclaim, and draw the presence of unconditional love in your life.  Yes, it takes time to believe that unconditional love exist; however, the more you commit to express, proclaim, and affirm unconditional love and acceptance for your true and authentic self, you begin to believe in the power and existence of unconditional love.

The belief in the power and existence of unconditional love ignites the intensity of our passion for life and thus helps us to create more life.  More life is riches and more life is the manifestations of wealth, abundance, and prosperity. 

Furthermore, the belief in the power of unconditional love is contagious.  The flame unconditional love begins as a spark and spreads added life, luster, luminosity, and passion to our lives and the lives of others.  Often times, when we feel numb, unimaginative, discontent, and just plain gloomy, it is time to return to the Presence to be refilled with the fuel of love—unconditional love. 

Let us add some clarity here.  Unconditional love cannot be expressed in an ego state.  The ego is filled with too many insecurities and fears.  These insecurities and fears make it impossible to have faith in the power of love.   The ego is weighed down with fetters.  These fetters make it impossible to uplift others with love and compassion.  The ego is distorted by illusions.  These illusions make it difficult to imagine the infinite possibilities that exist in life because of love.  To put is simply, if the ego is in the driver’s seat, you are unable to express unconditional love or receive unconditional love. 

Accordingly, the answer is…if we want to give and experience unconditional love, we have to be brave enough to live as our true and authentic self.  The true and authentic self does not feel vulnerable when expressing unconditional love; contrarily, the true and authentic self feels empowered when expressing unconditional love.  And most certainly this is how we want to live our lives. 

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