Living Your Dreams to Overcome Grief, Pain, and Loss

We can live our dreams every day of our lives.  I know as I say these words there are those who are thinking this can’t be true.  Those that believe they can’t live their dreams will experience a life without actualizing their hopes and dreams, for the law of attraction will draw to you only that which you are emitting in vibration. If you are emitting or offering the vibration—“I can’t actualize my dreams.  No one can live their dreams every day”, then this will most certainly be your experience in life. On a brighter note, if you believe that “I can live my dreams everyday. My dreams are actualizing everyday,” then this will most certainly be your experience in life. 

When we are not awakened to our true and authentic self and are weighed down by the fetters of the ego, it is hard to believe that our dreams can come true.  We all have different dreams.  We all believe receive the feelings of joy and elation from different things.  However one thing remains true.  We all want to be happy.   We all want to experience happiness all the time. 

But is it realistic to think that we can experience happiness everyday of our lives? Yes it is.  And we can live our dreams.  Does this mean that we will never have a bad day again?  Yes, it does.  Does it mean that we won’t ever experience grief, loss, or pain?  No it does not.  But it does mean that we can still live in a state of happiness and joy daily even if we experience grief or pain.  When we live in a state of happiness and joy daily, we live knowing that as we experience any pain, loss, or grief—“this too shall pass.” 

We hold on to grief, pain, or loss when we are not living our dreams because we don’t have anything else to hold on to—meaning we do not have anything else to aspire to so we hold on to pain, loss, and grief.  On the other hand, as we live our dreams and begin to exude the vibration associated with fully utilizing our creative potential, we can let go of grief, pain, and loss. 

Accordingly, for many years, Roslyn and I counseled others as Success Coaches and Wellness Coaches (and even as Business Coaches). Through transpersonal counseling and group sessions, we taught and demonstrated the importance of living your dreams.  We taught that when you live your dreams, you begin to live beyond grief, pain, and loss.  In Wellness Coaching, grief, pain, and loss were often associated with depression, anger, and manic frustration which led to overeating, binging, and food addictions.  In Success Coaching, grief, pain, and loss led to destructive relationships, self-sabotaging behaviors, and what we called “long extended ego-trips.”  And yes, in Business Coaching, grief, pain, and loss of any type led to mismanagement, lack of creative ideas, and poor judgment in building partnerships and in establishing relationship marketing strategies. 

And why would such things happen?  How could living our dreams help us move beyond pain and suffering?  When we are living our dreams, we are emitting a higher vibration connected to happiness, well-being, wealth, success, health, and good fortune.  Furthermore, by living our dreams, we are living with soul purpose. When we live with soul purpose, we are being our true and authentic self in mind, body, and spirit. 

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