Artists Must Understand Sex

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Sex is an exchange of energy whether we want to acknowledge it or not.  It is an exchange of energy between two willing and consenting partners.  It sounds bold to say this, but when choosing your sexual partners, we must be clear with ourselves and ask, “Do I want to have an exchange of energy with this person?” 

For many years, those of us who have studied intensely in the fields of Metaphysics, Biology, Spirituality, Personal Development, and the like, have been conditioned to believe that during the act of sex, the male is the “giver” and the female is the “receiver.”  However after careful study, many have changed their perceptions in this school of thought. 

Intercourse means “exchange between people.”  Sex, itself, is intercourse, meaning that there is an exchanging of energy with both partners.  A woman receives and gives energy as well as a man receives and gives energy. 

Accordingly, one might ask, “What is sexual energy?”  Sexual energy can be defined by the Greek word “eros.” Eros is a type of love, it is physical love governed by passion, attraction, and desire.  But there is more.  The Greeks identified Eros as the god of Love. 

However,  Eros is the Ancient Egyptian equivalent to Horus or Heru.  Heru is the ancient Egyptian Neter representing the “Horizon”, “higher consciousness”, “the higher self”, “the hero”, or “mankind’s highest potential.”  Taking this wisdom into consideration, how does this relate to sexual energy? Both perspectives, Greek and Ancient Egyptian (Kemetic) give us an understanding of sexual energy.    

To get there, so to speak, let’s explore passion-attraction-desire perspective and the “highest potential.”  Passion, desire, and attraction define sexual energy while “highest potential” reveals what sexual energy can do.  Potential energy is formally defined as the energy difference between the energy of an object in a given position and its energy at a reference position.

Attraction itself is the drawing together of like energies while passion is a strong feeling which compels desire.  Consequently as we take a deeper and more profound look, we can see that “potential” is the “becoming” aspect of manifestation and creation.  Now attraction being the drawing together of like energies and passion being the strong emotion which compels desire…what does this tell us?

It demonstrates that sexual energy is the exchange (each partner drawing from the other and emitting to the other) the energy for “becoming” or the energy necessary to close the gap between our “given” position and our reference position.  In other words, when we have sex with a partner having the energy to join with our energy in closing that gap we get “charged.”  And as we are charged the manifestation and creation process goes from potentiality to actuality. 

Now, pay close attention, we are saying here “when you have sex with a partner having the energy” to join with your energy in closing this gap.  Often times, why we are not getting “charged with the energy for manifestation and creation” during sex because we have chosen sexual partners while in an ego state—partners who do not have the energy necessary to join with our energy in order to close the gap between potentiality and actuality. 

This happens because the ego will make choices according to its subconscious mental tendencies.  These subconscious mental tendencies have been adapted from previous relationships (romantic relationships, friendships, family, parental) as defense mechanisms or learned behaviors. 

An example would be one’s tendency to be attracted to loud, boisterous bullies because the person appears to exhibit confidence that one may lack in one’s self.  Another example would be a woman’s/man’s preference to a bad boy/girl over a “good” guy/girl because the bad boy/girl seems more exciting.  Meaning such women/men with this preference believe they need someone else to bring excitement into their lives and are drawn to those who exhibit bad behavior.

As we have learned, the ego is never in tuned with one’s highest good.  However, when we make choices as our True and Authentic Self, we find that we are able to intuitively sense the vibrational frequency of others.  And this benefits us well when we choose our sexual partners.   We choose partners we can “charge” and partners who can “charge” us with energy for the creation and manifestation of our vision or true desire. 

Now how does all of this apply to the Artist?  Artists need to create; it’s not an option.  The process of creativity relies heavily on potentiality transforming into actuality.  Without it, the Artist is left with Dark Matter—potential that is yet to be used.  This Dark matter can fill up the Artist and lead to feels of suppression which leads to depression. 

Artists and all who want to create or manifest anything must consider:  Is the sex I’m having charging me with the energy for manifestation and creation or am I just wasting energy for a fleeting orgasm that won’t charge either one of us for our highest good? 

We’ve all seen it or maybe we have experienced it…having a sexual partner that seems all wrong for us.  What happens?  It seems like things in life become difficult.  It seems as if you are drawing energies into your life that are working against what you truly desire to manifest in your reality instead of working with it.

Often times, this is what causes many artists, scientist, entrepreneurs, and visionaries to lose sight of their vision, some energy we have taken on from our sexual partner  has changed our vibrational frequency in such a way that we are unable to attract what is necessary to maintain focus on our vision.  This very thing is what we call “distraction” or “dis-attraction.”

 You see, what many of us have yet to realize is that sex is an intercourse (the exchange of energy) and because some kind of energy will be exchanged regardless of  whether  it is energy that will join with our energy for manifestation and creation or energy that will repel it.  So when we think it’s just sex; it was designed for so much more 

A sexual orgasm feels great for a reason.  A sexual orgasm feels good so that we would want to have sex and have an orgasm (so simple, we know).  It is spiritually prudent to have orgasms because it is designed to charge us as we give and receive energy with our partners.  However, it is hollow empty thing when on the other side of the orgasm you find that you have drawn the wrong kind of energy into your reality. 

So, as artists, it’s a good idea for us to use our intuition when choosing our sexual partners and it is wise to choose with our highest good and higher self in mind, body, and spirit.  We will find that the exchange between us and our sexual partners will be “love-making” and that love-making can create something so delicious we may create a masterpiece. 

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