Bad Attitude, Anyone? Are You Throwing Shade?

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Bad attitude, no one likes to talk about it.  But does a bad attitude really exist?  If so, how does one overcome it and exemplify a good attitude.

I would not say there it is a bad attitude that some people have the misfortune of projecting as much as  it is a negative and non-productive attitude.  Our attitudes either serve us or the don’t serve us.  Our attitudes are emotional reactions to things, people, and environments we enjoy or dislike.  But what we fail to realize is that either way, it is emotional.  And when something is emotional, this means we are emoting and when we are emotingwe are emitting a vibrational frequency.

If we are emitting a negative attitude then we are emitting a negative and non-productive vibrational frequency.  This vibrational frequency has its affects when we tap into the mental plane.  We find that even as we attempt to “think positive thought” negative thoughts continue to spring up in our minds almost without warning.  This is because our vibrational frequency is attracting negative thoughts instead of positive or productive thoughts.

With this wisdom, it is ironic when we think that we are hurting someone else if we throw a little attitude (negative attitude) their way.  Nothing
could be further from the truth.  A negative and non-productive attitude hurts only one person and that’s the person with the negative attitude. In
other words, your attitude is either hurting you or helping you.

How?  Your attitude emits a vibrational frequency.  Your vibrational frequency determines what energy you with which you are aligned.  This is he law of attraction and the law of polarity at work.  For example, if you are projecting and emitting a negative attitude all day but sincerely contend you want to attract a loving relationship, then what you are aligning with is the negative aspect of love or love’s polar opposite.  What is love’s polar opposite, you guess it, hate.

Another example is you are saying daily affirmations about attracting, creating, and manifesting financial freedom and prosperity in your life, but you are walking around with a negative attitude.  That negative attitude can be about anything, your job, your hair, the babysitter, your spouse, your carpool—anything.  Why because you are emitting and projecting negativity.  What will happen?  You will attract, create, and manifest the
polar opposite of financial freedom which is debt.  You will attract, create, and manifest the polar opposite of prosperity which is poverty and brokenness.

A negative attitude does not serve you in the creation and manifestation process, why?  It does not serve you.  And it does not serve you because of a little law called the Law of Least Resistance.  This law contends that energy will follow the path of least resistance.  For this reason, when you can see a boulder in the middle of a stream, water does not continue to pound against the boulder, it simply goes around it or under it—wherever the path of least resistance flows.

Our negative attitude sits like a boulder in the middle of our lives.  It blocks the flow of good in our lives.  All the good we desire in our hearts just simply flow right pass us.  And we know that when flow is interrupted all six systems of divine flow is affected which includes:

1.  The divine flow of wealth and success
2.  The divine flow of wisdom and knowledge
3.  The divine flow of love and devotion
4.  The divine flow of peace and order
5.  The divine flow of health and wellness
6. The divine flow of service to others

However, if we change our attitude to a positive and productive, then we can get our flow back. When we get our flow back we can attract good in our lives.   We can change our attitude by choosing to practice different actions and reactions consciously.  Yes, consciously, we have to be self-aware of our actions and reactions and purposefully change then before they become habit.  This is what self-awareness and personal development is all about, making conscious changes until they become subconscious or habit.  Eventually, these conscious changes will become subconscious and a negative and non-productive attitude will be transformed to a positive and productive attitude.

Some conscious changes you can make in your life are:

1.  Smile. You can’t be negative and smile at the same time.  Smile sincerely, even if you have to think about something that makes you smile.
2. Greet others with cheer in your voice and a kind word. “Hello. (smiling sincerely) Great to see you today.”
3. Stop and think about the best thing that has happened so far today.  For example. I got the kids off to school on time this morning.  The day is going excellent so far. Another example, there was already toner in the copy machine, and I didn’t have to change it.  The day is very productive so far.”
4. Say a positive affirmation about yourself over and over throughout the day. Try to stick to the same affirmation until you can recite it without analyzing or questioning it. “I am a competent, talented, gifted person who attracts positive, supportive, and loving people in my life.”
5. Replace cynicism and snarkiness with sincerity and authenticity in your tone and in your words. For example, “Yeah, great day we’re having, humph” can be replace with “Great day we are having (with sincerity).”
6. When negative thoughts creep into the crevices of your mind, say something positive aloud. For example a negative thought says, “I am going to be stuck in this crummy job for the rest of my life.” Instead say aloud (even if you have to whisper), “A new opportunity where I can use my gifts and talents doing what I love (name it) is presenting itself now. I see it and I am grateful for it.”

These practices will help you take conscious steps to change your negative and non-productive attitude to a positive and productive attitude.
Instead of throwing “shade” you will be a bearer of sunshine and goodwill and that’s how we attract more good in our lives.

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